Darling....I truly understand. One, check baggage and bring more than one suitcase. Two, have one spectacular outfit with layers, excellent skirt or pants, shell top, sweater, excellent jacket or coat...mix and match and accessorize well with earings and SHOES or BOOTS. Three, sleep nekkid and bring tiny underwear that will fit rolled up in your shoes. Four, pack toilitries in your purse. Five, heels and a long coat always work for me.