Oh Xie, that really is a tragedy!

But I do have a tip for getting it off...
Go to the paint department at Lowe's or Home Depot and get some stuff called Goof Off or even better Goof off 2 (water based), that stuff takes off grease, tar, ink, bubble gum. I've used it on a suede couch when my little cousin used some red lipstick to draw on it and this stuff worked.