After reading this, Xie, I felt that I should read some of Orlith's entries. He seems a lovely guy and, even though I only read the first page, he comes across as the type of person who, I feel, I would like to know. I'm sorry that someone else felt that she had the right to be critical and judgmental and hope that this does not cause him or you pain.
It's very hard for me to put into words when I read of this type of behaviour but I hope that you can understand what I am trying to say.